Brevity. The Word for today is brevity. As in: Don't be long winded. Get it done. Don't let grass grow under your feet. Johnny be quick.
This is a world in which the slow and the "relaxed" is frowned upon, anymore. Everything must be DONE and done NOW. Patience be damned.
There are aspects of social interaction in which "time taking" is admired, looked for and supported. All you young men out there need to keep that in mind.
And you women need to remind your men - constantly. It is not a lesson easily learned and needs constant reinforcement.
I'm just sayin'.