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3/16/2013

On my mind


I have been trying to get my mind off the events of the day - of the evening.  I want to write one of those normal posts that I always write.  One of those posts about nothing.  After all, this is a Seinfeld blog - a blog about nothing (with apologies to Jerry Seinfeld).

My wife is leaving me.  I found out this evening.

I don't suppose it's sunk in, yet.

She says she loves me - she's just not "In Love" with me any more.

What do I do now?

Ndinombethe.

10 comments:

Jientje said...

OMG Lou, please say it isn't true?

Big Mark 243 said...

There are no words... none at all... tears, no words...

Rebecca said...

Oh, Lou! I am so sorry. Hugs...

Kat said...

Well, that just pisses me off. That whole "I love you but I'm not 'in love' with you" bs. That is such a load of crap. Like life (marriage) is all flowers and romance every second? The grass is always greener until you find out it isn't.
Perhaps you could remind her that the vows say "I promise to love you" (not be in love with you) all your life. For better or for worse.

Sorry, I'm not being kinder. This touched on a nerve.

I'm so sorry. Sending you all my good thoughts, prayers, hugs, and strength.

Jientje said...

Hug

alisha said...

<3 lots of love to you lou.

Unknown said...

Wtf

Tara R. said...

I am stunned. I am so sorry Lou. I wish I had some words of comfort for you.

Mrs F with 4 said...

I sent you a message, earlier, Lou, but just in case...I'm so sorry that you and A are going through this. My love to you.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry Lou :( This is bad. Lots of love... I'm sneaking a read at work. Nan XX