But I don't know what to give her!
I keep trying to tell you, it doesn't matter. She won't care.
What do you mean 'she won't care'? Of course she'll care. I know I would.
But that's you. It's not her way to care.
Fine, then. I won't give her anything.
I wouldn't do that. She'll know.
But you said she won't care. So why should I give her anything?
She will not care what you give her - she WILL care that you gave. It's the thought of giving that has the value, not the value of what you give.
Ndinombethe. And a Happy Thanksgiving to all of you.